Dear Mike,
I’m new to online dating and want to make sure I get the best girls. Should I be on more than one dating website to increase my odds?
Thanks,
Jeff
Hey Jeff,
There are hundreds of online dating websites out there and it can be tempting to ride all of them all at once. However the best online dating results come from a more focused approach.
The majority of my clients at My Online Dating Consultant purchase my service because they find online dating to be a time-consuming process that is not yielding the results they want. The answer is not to increase your pool in that case, but instead be more targeted and develop a game plan to reach success. I help my clients run a successful online dating process with an investment of an hour or two a week with one site. Signing up for additional sites means additional time that truly is not necessary and can diminish your available “dating capital” of energy and enthusiasm.
Online dating sites are no different from any other mechanism for meeting new people. Every online dating site has a ton of excellent, high quality people and every site has a slew of unattractive, undateable candidates too. It is more about the approach you take to online dating than it is about where you do it.
While it’s good to stay the course with one online dating site at a time, it is advisable after a prolonged stay on one site to switch off to another. When you initially sign-up for a new online dating website, there’s an early burst of excitement with all of these new faces and women to potentially select from at your fingertips. However, in time you may find that the talent pool is saturated and you’re seeing them same tired old faces each time you log in to search. This is a good time to pull down your profile or let your subscription lapse to start fresh somewhere else.
If you’d like to become a client of My Online Dating Consultant we can work through how you present yourself and your process. I can also help you define what you want and implement a strategy that is time efficient and leads to better interactions.
Please feel free to let me know if you have any questions about my company and services.
In the interim, please feel free to peruse the following free resources:
The My Online Dating Consultant Blog (My Readers’ Questions Answered):
https://myonlinedatingconsultant.wordpress.com/
My Bi-Weekly Article (Thursdays) in The Unfinished Man Men’s Magazine:
http://www.unfinishedman.com/author/mike-muson/
Cheers,
Mike Muson
CEO/Founder of My Online Dating Consultant